My name is Khalilah Naeema Ford. I was born in Louisville KY; my great ancestors were part of the Eastern Woodland Culture and belonged to the Iroquoian tribe however, after European Exploration much of my ancestor’s history became irretrievable because they relied on oral rather than written communication. I identify myself as an African American and so does society yet, my ancestors were Native Americans. When an average onlooker veiws me they see my latte’ toned competition. They fail to see that my ancestors shaped the Americas and established what European Explorers transformed. An average onlooker views my journey starting with the enslavement of Africans in the New World and continuing with the presidency of Barack Obama rather than the historic struggle for rights and identity of Native Americans.
I was raised in a predominately diverse community so rarely was I affected by the status quo of racism. However at a very young age I understood the dynamics of my skin tone. I have three brothers and one sister, my sister is biracial so her skin tone is much fairer than mine. As a child I was subjected to being compared to my sister and her beauty. It was an unstated belief that African Americans with lighter skin complexities were prettier than those with a darker. I soon realized that my skin tone was one of the most important features I possessed outside of the fact that I am a women.
While growing up my mother sent me to a preparatory school, while there I was taught the values needed to understand different cultures. To be able to understand different cultures one has to value education. As a child my mother emphasized the importance of being an educated black woman, she believed that if I was educated my ethnic background and race would not matter. As I continue my journey I realize that being educated about my culture as well as others allows me to see the world through so many different eyes; therefore allowing me to advance my mentality. My ancestors were able to live in their land and thrive even until after European exploration simply because they were educated about their environment and resourceful using what was provided to survive.
I have come to understand that race is important but education is more important. If everyone was culturally educated many of the stereotypes as well as discriminatory behavior would dissipate. Now I’m not saying that all it takes is for one to educate themselves, what I’m saying is that with education one’s mentality expands and so does their understanding of the world around them. My ancestors shaped America through cultural behaviors but now it is our turn to determine the dynamics of the world that we live in.
I find this very interesting and open-minded. I feel that you are going to be a big help to our society in the future with the way the mind thinks and your will to help change it. What i mean by that is most people are self-centered and/or have tunnel vision. Instead of expanding the mind they stay with what they know. The more we grow as people we also need to learn as well. There's never too much learning. Every day can be a day where we learn more about the world and the things that take place. The world is getting better in my opinion, but it needs more open-minded and charismatic people to help the world learn and change.
ReplyDeleteKhalilah- I very much enjoyed your opening post. Perhaps not surprisingly, I heartily agree with both you and Armani about the importance of education. For me, there is an important difference between "knowledge" (collecting facts) and "wisdom" (knowing how to make sense of "facts" in ways that benefit us). Knowledge is a necessarily but insufficient condition for wisdom. One of my goals for this class is for us all to develop greater wisdom about cultural diversity in the U.S. For example: you courageously brought up your personal struggle with the "internalized racism" that many African Americans experience regarding skin tone ("lighter is better"). How can we hear your truth with openness and compassion? How can we take in this information and allow it to change us?
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed your blogg Khalilah. I also agree with Armani when he stated that you have a open mind. There are lot of people in the society that are stuck in their ways on the thoughts that they have of different races. They really dont take the time out to learn about other races or cultures. After reading your blogg it does show that you have an open mind. The world would be alot better if everyone had an open mind but i doubt if that ever happens. I like the fact that you actually went to your grandmother and got the background of your ancestors thats very intresting. I barely know my ancestry background so I give you an A+ for that :) I understand where you come from when you stated that you had darker skin than kyour sister and in a way you were looked at different. I was the oposite, becasue everyone in my family was darker and I was lighter I was looked at different. keep an open mind! Good Job!
ReplyDeleteIt's sad that everyone in our society does not get the opportunity to pursue a college education or even successfully finish high school. It makes me happy to see someone with such a high level of appreciation for education due to their life changing experiences. Like you said our world would not be so stereotypical if more individuals were culturally educated. Keep fighting to become successful because your opinion matters and we need more people like you in our world to make a difference in peoples lives. Your mind expands beyond the average persons mind and that is simply a gift from god. Keep up the good work! Love the article.
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